A mere two days before the 2020 Presidential Election, the anxiety people are experiencing is palpable. Many of my patients have been talking about their fears about the election and what may happen immediately following, with much anticipation of riots and acts of violence and aggression. The news is reporting a significant increase in the number of purchases of firearms. Add to that the fact that we are in the midst of a global pandemic. Cases of COVID-19 are surging as the temperatures are dropping and it is getting darker much earlier as we approach the winter months. People are struggling to keep afloat with devastating numbers of unemployment, work stress, and profound isolation. So many of these stressors are out of our control. Such powerlessness is at the root of our anxieties. When people feel helpless to enact positive changes for themselves, they become fearful.
The antidote to this powerlessness, then, is to practice ways to control the things that are within our power to control. I would be naïve to expect people not to watch the news this week, but perhaps people can choose to limit the amount of time they spend doing so. If the news is contributing to a rise in anxiety, then it would be a good idea to consciously limit one’s exposure to the things that are triggering anxiety. Setting boundaries, in this case time boundaries, is a very empowering act of self-care. There are also a large number of concrete activities that people can do to help manage their anxiety. These often involve changing one’s heart rate either by slowing it down or speeding it up. I teach many patients suffering from anxiety disorders deep breathing exercises that help them take in vastly more air and slow down their breathing. With some patients, we start our sessions with ten minutes of a guided meditation, which can help people focus on the present moment and be more aware of their internal emotions and physical sensations, which may have the added benefit of providing some relaxation. Alternatively, you may choose to speed up your heartrate with any number of cardiovascular exercises. Physical exercise, in addition to keeping your body in good health, can help reduce anxiety. One patient who suffers from anxiety told me that she finds it helpful to focus her attention on activities that she enjoys, such as knitting and trying new recipes. And some people find it helpful to engage in activities that require some type of repetitive motion, such as scrubbing a pan.
FDR famously said, “There is nothing to fear but fear itself.” It seems more and more that politicians and many news sources are intentionally playing on our fears with the thinking that this fear will help them earn votes or make them money. In thinking about all the aggression that exists in the world, it seems to be fear that is at the root. Fear can cause people to act in ways that are almost unimaginable. Often, people aren’t even aware that they have these fears; they may simply be in touch with the anger that is fueling them to behave in dangerous ways. If we look closely, we may uncover deeply buried fears, such as fears of scarcity and fears of mortality. As we head into what is predicted to be a difficult week ahead, I invite you to take a moment to reflect on how you can approach the week by being kind to yourself and considering ways you can stave off feelings of powerlessness by taking charge of the things that are within your power and the ways you can actively manage your anxiety.